the_devils_advocate Junior Member Posts: 1 From: Registered: 10-24-2006 |
What's so great about turning the other cheek? What's the point in living for ideals if you just get stomped on by everyone else? Why would Jesus ask people to do such a thing? ------------------ |
Jari Member Posts: 1471 From: Helsinki, Finland Registered: 03-11-2005 |
Hi. Jesus also teches to bless those who curse you and use you and this is because God wants us to love each other and to overcome evil with good by forgiving. Turning other cheek could mean kind words in practice when some one comes mad on you and the anger is quickly quenched by love. Jari. ------------------ [VoHW] (Help needed) [Blog] - Truedisciple (mp3) |
ArchAngel Member Posts: 3450 From: SV, CA, USA Registered: 01-29-2002 |
Turning the other cheek isn't about lack of defense, but not retaliating against insults and attacks against your pride. now, if a person tries killing you, you try killing them right back. not a bible verse.. but.. meh. Firefly. close enough. ------------------ |
kenman Member Posts: 518 From: Janesville WI Registered: 08-31-2006 |
quote: Turning the other cheeck also has a lot to do with maturity (both spritual and emotional). Yeah it isn't fun to be stomped on by everyone else, been there, done that, had the t-shirt ripped off my chest. But it is a part of real life. Turning the other cheeck shows the utmost love and respect, for not only others, but ourselves, not giving into emotional rage and revenge. Jesus was telling us this, not as another law to live by, but another priniple to live by. |
Faith_Warrior Member Posts: 490 From: So.Cal. Registered: 09-05-2006 |
Well there was left a lot of room to read many things into it, I would have preferred that it were better drawn out and defined but I guess there is a certain measure for everything or we would have many volumes of text and that can be very confusing in itself. Some interpret it to mean absolute pacifism, which I don’t believe it says, and others look it over as too confusing to understand, though it should be understood and placed in context with the whole of scripture. Much of it has to do with the cultural practices of the time. In that culture, if someone slapped you (even lightly) it was considered a very serious insult. It was not necessarily an act of inflicting pain in some situations but a gesture much like the bird hand gesture (e.g. giving the bird or flipping off someone) that is often displayed in western culture. Even today, it is a serious insult to slap someone in Israel. In such cases it’s almost a mandate to give a slap back. Eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth, slap em’ back if they slap you first. It does not mean to lay down and let someone slap you to death though. Is it turn the cheek or offer the same cheek? Do an open palm slap on the left cheek of a person with your right hand(visualize), if they turn the other cheek you must reposition yourself to slap the other cheek. To slap that other cheek you would physically need to use the back of the hand to do so (not a slap) or free your other hand to slap the other cheek (open palm). If you tried to slap in the same way(angle), you would hit them square in the face which is simply an attack and not just an insult by cultural standards. So bottom line is if someone insults you, don’t offer yourself as an easy target for the same insult. To do this you don’t simply insult them back in this manor but make it difficult for them to repeat the same insult. People that often insult simply look for the easy target, if there is resistance they soon give up or avoid the matter all together in the first place. Does it mean that we all hold hands and sing ‘we shall overcome’ as an enemy force rips the guts out of our children right before our eyes(as some would say it means)? Absolutely not! That does not jive with the whole of scripture. It does mean to use your head though. |
ArchAngel Member Posts: 3450 From: SV, CA, USA Registered: 01-29-2002 |
I remember hearing that, Faith. I'd say you got it. cultural context sounds right, it's in line with the Bible and it makes sense. ------------------ |
SumGI Member Posts: 29 From: *Western* Montana (Oh yeah we have computers!), USA Registered: 09-16-2006 |
Don't freak out and get mad if someone disses you, eh, ehhhh? ------------------ |
NetCog Member Posts: 149 From: Registered: 06-15-2006 |
And yet, turning the other cheek unto death might also be what is "expected" (if that's the right word). Paul was imprisoned and didn't rail against his captors. Many other examples exist. At the same time references in both OT and NT support and/or don't detract from defending one's life and limb (or defending a country or defending those who can't defend themselves - orphans and widows for eg). Total pacifism is not the answer, was not what was intended. You will find it hard to defend the weak if you think so. |
Jari Member Posts: 1471 From: Helsinki, Finland Registered: 03-11-2005 |
netcog makes some valuable points there. However was Jesus not a marthyr like he's followers (Christians)? ------------------ [VoHW] (Help needed) [Blog] - Truedisciple (mp3) |
NetCog Member Posts: 149 From: Registered: 06-15-2006 |
quote: Thanks, but Jesus wasn't really a martyr.
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Realm Master Member Posts: 1971 From: USA Registered: 05-15-2005 |
Jesus loves me this I know, for the bible tells me so. Turnign the other cheek is an example to everyone else what Christain Ideals are. Though, I myself am a contradiciton to my own faith (wanna join the military before college) I think there is a point, however, where You can't let people just walk on you. As a firm beliver in God and Chivalry (Knights, W00T!) There's a difference between turning the other cheek, and letting yourself be walked on. (I.E. Some werid thug comes up to you in schol and says "Hey, beatch, Gimme your Jacket" he cracks his fingers. You give him your jacket, even if he is smaller (Though in reality, I probalby woudn't ) Then he says "And your shirt!" Give him your shirt (Unless your Female, then you don't) Then if he says strip down and run around naked while I take off wiht your cloths, then you Totally kick his balls into his skull, and proceed to beat the crap outa him. At least, thats the way I see it, I dunno, you can Ask God about that.
Otherwise... Bible knows best. *Straps on helmet, grabs AR-15 and prepares for counter-reponses* ------------------
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Jari Member Posts: 1471 From: Helsinki, Finland Registered: 03-11-2005 |
quote: Perhaps martyr is not the right word but consider what isaiah says: - Isa 53:7 He was oppressed, and he was afflicted, yet he opened not his mouth: he is brought as a lamb to the slaughter, and as a sheep before her shearers is dumb, so he openeth not his mouth. Our Lord Jesus gave He's life for us - you know that - and He really didnt fight back of course, when the time had come. So to me it seems that God doesn't want us to fight back. We should of course move away from the danger and suffer for the weak by giving our own life and not fight. Because then we can still pray like Jesus prayed "... forgive them; for they know not what they do ..." (Luk 23:34) and by doing so we pray for our enemies. Now if you think about it, what use it is to protect your self so that others suffer and even die? Our - who are saved in Christ - soul is on God's hand, unlike the other one's soul. This reminds about David, who did not kill saul when he had the change but let the Lord do the justice. ------------------ [VoHW] (Help needed) [Blog] - Truedisciple (mp3) |
ArchAngel Member Posts: 3450 From: SV, CA, USA Registered: 01-29-2002 |
<whoops... yeah... uh... just delete this post altogether, okay?> [This message has been edited by ArchAngel (edited October 28, 2006).] |
Max Member Posts: 523 From: IA Registered: 09-19-2004 |
I see it simply as if someone says something to hurt your pride, don't give him the satisfaction of trying to insult him back. Simply be the better person and say nothing, or walk away. I do not follow this very closely, even though I should. I have a quick tongue and a large vocabulary, so I usually end up winning word fights with people, even though I know I should simply never start them in the first place. Note to self : work on this, lol. ------------------ Blind belief is dangerous. - Kenyan Proverb Computers are useless. They can only give you answers. - Pablo Picasso |
Realm Master Member Posts: 1971 From: USA Registered: 05-15-2005 |
quote: Good Advice, I'll try that! ------------------
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NetCog Member Posts: 149 From: Registered: 06-15-2006 |
quote: Hmmmm, Well, to start with: I direct your attention to David and Goliath, as well as the rest of the battles David was involved in over the course of his life, among just a few examples.
quote: I do not believe that is quite a correct conclusion. I don't disagree with you on exhortions throughout the New Testament to "submit", as it were, to our enemies. There is still the matter and available conclusions to draw from Jesus and the moneymakers in the temple. I was going to type more but a couple of links said it better: http://strategicintelligence.blogspot.com/2006/10/on-christianity-and-self-defense_1 8.html http://www.worldnetdaily.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=25442 http://blogcritics.org/archives/2005/02/06/180544.php http://www.jerusalemperspective.com/Default.aspx?tabid=27&ArticleID=1459 These, especially the last, could be viewed as taking a few scraps and trying to build a case from it. And yet, an utter pacifist stance is not completely supported without points to the contrary. Especially if you believe the Bible does not ever truly contradict itself. There is only one way to understand and read the Bible. I don't claim to know it all, or even a percentage of it, nor do I claim that I will know more than a small portion, if that; but I do claim that any other method of reading Scripture will result in (A) contraditions or (B) requiring significant adjustments of other portions of scripture to match your stated conclusion. Whether I know that method or not is up for me to find out, I'm simply stating that such a method exists if you believe the following. If the Bible is a complete work. If the Bible is the Word of God. [This message has been edited by NetCog (edited October 30, 2006).] |
Jari Member Posts: 1471 From: Helsinki, Finland Registered: 03-11-2005 |
Hi NetCog, thank you for those links and your thoughts. I have to say that I don't care to talk much about this but I must and I try to keep this short but apparently I'm going to write some...
quote: How I feel about this is that as follower of Jesus I am to do everything like He did and that included giving my own life, first giving my life to God but then giving it for other's according to God's will. It's easy for me to say this than act like this of course but it's non the less the way I want to go. And it doesn't feel bad at all to give my life because some day we all die anyway and like Apostole Paul wrote that He'd rather be with God but for our sake he also wants to be on earth and this is the kind of thinking I have based my view, our part is not in here not defending our homes because we are just pilgrims here on earth. And families, the loved ones should not be just our families but every single person equally loved and moreover families are clothed with salvation (Pro 31:21).
quote: I don't quite see how that means that we should fight physically if that's what you mean? Because I really doupt that any violence was used towards the people but only their tables were turned over, released birds and possibly whipped the oxes with a "scourge of small cords". It sure sounds like a chaos and I'd imagine the money changers weren't too eager to stay and put up a fight. If you want to know about my conclusions I should probably say that I know Bible is fully word of God and there are no contradictions and God's will and law never changes. But our position and our mission does and we have many roles, like you know and most importantly we are under a new coveant which is not about one nation in one physical location in world anymore but one church of Christ. Btw, I'm not a pacifist. Jari.
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