WOODY Member Posts: 42 From: Mt. Pleasant, michigan, USA Registered: 10-22-2002 |
Ok I have been dating my g/f for about 3 months now. It started off great, and thats about when the problems started. 1st she is not a Christian, I don't even know if she believes cause she gives me a hard time about it when ever I ask. Also she is like a super romantic. Thats so not me, nor do I have the money to take her out to movies and dinner ect. She can't seem to understand that I guess. We have never really talked about it, but its in her LJ. She doesn't even really talk to me about things anymore. Next I was working on her computer and while trying to get rid of crap I found an old chat between her and her friend. I probably should of read it, but most of the time she doesn't care. Anyways there is some guy she has never meet that she's in love with just as much as me, he's great and does everything she wants, and finally they both don't think I'm gonna do anything with my life. Thats complete BS and really pisses me off. Also I am kinda stuck because she is living with me, my g-ma and my g-pa for the summer. HELP |
bennythebear Member Posts: 1225 From: kentucky,usa Registered: 12-13-2003 |
my advice, dump her. it's pretty simple. you can't truely LOVE two people that way. maybe care about, or lust after, or personifa your dream person into 2 people, but not real love. from experience, if they're like that, then all you have to look forward to is one heartache after another, until finally you bottom out  . not worth it.------------------ proverbs 25:7 www.gfa.org - Gospel for Asia www.persecution.com - Voice of the Martyrs |
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bennythebear Member Posts: 1225 From: kentucky,usa Registered: 12-13-2003 |
i mean personify ------------------ proverbs 25:7 www.gfa.org - Gospel for Asia www.persecution.com - Voice of the Martyrs |
eucaliptus_boy Junior Member Posts: 5 From: Sydney, N.S.W, Australia Registered: 05-08-2005 |
Yer I agree with teh above statement sought of, cos by teh sounds of it, she treats you like dirt, and dosnt want to have anything to do with you, but im guessing that would make you depressed, wich would you prefer? someone who dosnt love you, or be by yourslef again, due its your choice, but if your cool with you girl liken another dude maybe u talk to her about it ------------------ |
Rhyolite Member Posts: 86 From: UK Registered: 08-04-2004 |
Tough situation because she is living in same house. But it does not sound like a good relationship, so you should probably just become 'friends'. Try and keep the peace, this will make the summer much more bearable  Remember, not everyone is as 'nice', 'sincere' or as 'honest' as you might be. Some people can be very manipulative! God Bless, |
CoolJ Member Posts: 354 From: ny Registered: 07-11-2004 |
quote: dude, prove her wrong! say SEEYAH! you'll do a lot more with your life if your not worrying about her. trust me, you don't won't 3 months of this to turn into 3 years. You'll look back with regrets you wasted so much time. |
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bennythebear Member Posts: 1225 From: kentucky,usa Registered: 12-13-2003 |
he's right, some people are very manipulative. my x-fiance was that way, and she still might be. she showed up at my doorstep saturday, and of course my wife wasn't home(the devil plans things well it seems), but my parents were home(God hooks us up despite the devils plans). of course her and her husband are having troubles, and she comes running a few states up to my house expecting something. but she got married, and i'm married and i love my wife, i want to keep what God has given me. i'm speaking from experience, the one God has for you won't be like that. she won't be perfect, but she won't be everything a Christian is NOT. save yourself a lot of heartache, regret, and wasted time and dump her. that's all i got from my x-fiance. ------------------ proverbs 25:7 www.gfa.org - Gospel for Asia www.persecution.com - Voice of the Martyrs |