Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
I do not wish to harm anyones faith so do not read on unless you feel led to (and i do mean it) I dont know how to put it very well, it is a very difficult thing to explain. To explain: sometimes knowing to much and so much can be very bad but it can lead to the destruction of one's faith in God and Christ. All i know is that i need yall to pray for what i must do on this next Monday, that i have the strength to do it. For the rules of our morality are what govern our actions in life. The bible clearly lays them down in order to guide us to rightousness. But I was undermined. I'm not sure if God led me to her that i may never be naive about society again or if it was my stupidity. I made a descision when i was very young to allow God to guide me to the woman that he wanted me to be with. And therefore avoid all others. i am now only a few days from turning 20 now and i have a child to take care of. She no longer wanted to be his mother and so she abandoned him in may 3 months ago. But as to how this all came to be, the path she led me on was very dark. I have come through so much spiritual warfare through it all and have been through so much. I dare not ellaborate for i do not wish to undermine anyone of yalls faith in Christ. She almost destroyed my faith. All I know is that I need a steadying hand. A hand to help me stay standing up before i fall again. And thus not come up again. Please pray for me. Again I wish to all that do want to know more be sure they are rock solid AND that they feel led to do so. - In god's guiding hand i pray Valkyrie |
ArchAngel Member Posts: 3450 From: SV, CA, USA Registered: 01-29-2002 |
bro, we got your back. of course you have our prayers. tough times will always come; it's what makes us stronger. I appreciate the fact that your are concerned with our faith. although I cannot speak for others, I'll ask you to elaborate if it can help in anyway. ------------------ |
en972 Member Posts: 562 From: NOT TELLING! Registered: 08-27-2004 |
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Jari Member Posts: 1471 From: Helsinki, Finland Registered: 03-11-2005 |
Hi Valkyri. We will pray for you and for your child. Just trust Jesus and resist evil. And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold. But he that shall endure unto the end, the same shall be saved. God bless you. |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
I thank you all for your prayers, in Christ's name i thank you all. In this reply I will elaborate and so therefore I must warn you all to NOT read on unless you are rock solid in you faith AND feel led to do so. For what i will speak of WILL make you question your faith unless you are steadfastly in God's hands. I do not want to be the cause of anyone of yalls downfall, I do not want you all to go through what i have. It will make you ask yourself "why?" So therefore i will now elaborate: Again I ask that what is read from this point on not be read if you are not rock solid in your faith in Christ AND do not feel led to do so by God. You all have been warned. I met her at Wendy's where i worked when i was 18 and a senior in High School. And I swear she was like an angel to me, and I just sensed it, and just knew that she was the one, the one that God had led me to be with. Or at least I thought I did, now after whats happened i'm not sure of anything anymore. I do my best to not think about and rely on little faith I have. In November of 03 we became engaged, and about a month later in Dec she told me something that since has almost destroyed my faith. This is you alls last warning. Do NOT read on if you dont feel led to do so, I implore you all. If you do YOU will suffer if you have not been led to so. You have been warned. I have always known that spiritual warfare exists. Have always been able to sense it, I don't know why. If you want proof it exists just listen to some christian youth camp music. That place where you go and get on fire and then go home and eventually deflate, and you feel so happy, so radiant. But if you listen to secular music and do so with your heart you can hear the emptiness, feel the hollowness. And if you really listen you can hear them whispering temptations trying to influence you to evil. We met at wendys in 03 when I 18 and a senior at High School and I swear I saw an angel and I just knew that she was the one that God had been leading me to. Now though i'm not so sure. In November we became engaged. About a month later she told me something that changed me forever. She told me she was an archangel by the name of Illari Sky and she had sent to this world to help people have hope. I was very amazed and so I asked her i was human and she said yes. I was not happy about that. I have always wanted to make a difference in peoples lives. About a month later when I was working at wendys all the sudden I felt so strange and then my back was in such pain and then i saw them. They were black leathery wings. She then realized that I was a demon and told that my name was Meridyn Lucifer Alloran Rayon. (which means: torn one, light, purple, ribbon.) Now i dont blame you all if you think i should burn or die, but from what i read from all the postings, I hope I was right in coming here. Yall are as close as it comes to what I love to do. I came here in need of a steadying hand. I hope you all understand. In February of 04 before we graduated from high school she convinced to run away from home together because her grandparents were to mean to her, abusive. And so we did. Now as you can imagine she got pregnant, but then she had told me that her last boyfriend had made it to where she could never have kids and I believed her. We were forced to move back in with her grandparents when we found out that the people we were living with were doing crack and so we got out of there real fast. We got married Oct. 11. I continued to be plagued by doubts. I did the best that I could. I'd come home exhausted, eat, and spend some time with her and go to sleep. She was always talking about the spiritual things and so I just did the best to ignore it and not talk about it but none the less i was plagued by doubts. For the rules of morality are what govern our actions. ------------------ |
ArchAngel Member Posts: 3450 From: SV, CA, USA Registered: 01-29-2002 |
first of all, homie, why the crap would we want to see you burn? we're all praying and hoping that things get better for you. just cuz some deluded chick said you are a demon name purple ribbon (didn't want to bother to say it all) doesn't mean we want to see you die. relax, you're among friends here. there really is only one way to cure doubts. God. I'm sure you know that, tho. I don't need to tell you that your not a demon, and that she's not an angel. the facts speak for themselves. all I can really do is pray, and bro, as I said before, I'm doin that. P.S. imo, I don't see how your post could harm our faith. ------------------ |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
I said the same thing as you did, but then have you ever tried roleplaying? You see this is the true danger of roleplaying. I never thought I'd come so close to losing my faith. But I did. I underderstand what you are saying though. I thank you for your prayers. ------------------ |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
a continuation from the last post: I went to church at FOTW today. And its like the msg was geared for me you know what I mean? You all know the old childrens song: Yes Jesus loves me, yes Jesus loves me for the bible tells me so, We are weak but he is strong. I guess God put me through everything so I'd be able to be used. As Pastor Kerry put it: He uses our weaknesses to show forth his glory. ------------------ |
Jari Member Posts: 1471 From: Helsinki, Finland Registered: 03-11-2005 |
Hi. I read your story and the first thing that comes to my mind is that it's all Satans work and he is trying to deceive you. I understand that if it's scary when some says that you are a demon but I do not believe that she is any angel, at least not angel of the Lord simply because I don't believe angels come here to marry and live like us. And the whole picture of arch angel as demons boyfriend just doesn't make sense. Valkyri, do you confess Jesus Christ as your Lord? Because no one who isn't born from spirit of God can do that. Remeber that Jesus warned about false prophets and like ArchAngel said Satan can disguise him self as angel of light. Infact during my short time of Christian I have already learned by reading similar stories that this is a typical attack from Satan against faith of a believer in Christ. Satan tries to make you feel bad and think that you are bad and your sins wount be forgiven which is NOT true. Don't be afraid brother, just believe. God bless. ------------------ Unless the LORD builds the house, they labor in vain who build it; unless the LORD keeps the city, the watchman stays awake in vain. - Psalms 127:1 |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
Well it went rather well yesterday. It hurt to do it just the same. But I felt that God and you alls prayers were with us. I thank you all. I feel so sorry for my great grandparents in law having to against her like that. Its so sad. But we'll make it God willing, we'll do our damndest. By the way Jari, I believe. As an aside, well I don't know how to put this but. Well it may seem like a dumb question, but I guess its the best way for me to start: What is yalls vision of games for the future? That is how would you all make people who think christian oriented games should burn be willing to play them and yet be willing to be honest with themselves and ask Why am I here? What is my existence? That used to be historically why people went to college was to find out what the meaning of life was. At least for America's history. ------------------ |
Jari Member Posts: 1471 From: Helsinki, Finland Registered: 03-11-2005 |
Hi Valkyri. Great to hear that it went well! ------------------ Unless the LORD builds the house, they labor in vain who build it; unless the LORD keeps the city, the watchman stays awake in vain. - Psalms 127:1 |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
Well as you all know I filed and now I'm just waiting to hear from that she got served. My prayer is that she does not attempt to fight me, but just accepts it. I know thats a little unrealistic though, so I'll go with what I get. I pray though that she learns from her mistakes and repents just as I did. Although I suppose that will be much harder for her. I don't know, I just know it will hurt just the same. Well all I can rely on is God and Christ to guide me. Whatever happens, happens: I'm in good hands. In Christ's name I pray - Valkyrie ------------------ |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
Hey guess what I just realized? I'm 20 minutes from turning 20!!!!!! Well now its 19. Being a teenager was nice, I hope I can remember what it was like to be a child, well physically speaking. I will always be a child. For I must depend on Christ. I just hope I can remember so I'll be a good father to Shane. In Christ name ------------------ |
bennythebear Member Posts: 1225 From: kentucky,usa Registered: 12-13-2003 |
i feel for ya man. i've been tangled up with a woman that i shouldn't have. it will mess with your faith, and mess with your heart, but God's greater, His mercy and grace is sufficient(and then some!). i didn't marry her, but we we're engaged for a while. but she left. then i got married to a good woman(praise God!). I'm walking proof of God's soveriegn hand. i'll pray for ya. ------------------ proverbs 25:7 www.gfa.org - Gospel for Asia www.persecution.com - Voice of the Martyrs |
Max Member Posts: 523 From: IA Registered: 09-19-2004 |
Hi there, I read through your story, and I must say that you are totally welcome in this community. Also remember that we cannot be demons, because we are all children of God. Anyhow, I'm glad things are getting better. If you need to talk about anything you can send me a PM (Private message) Or email me, (check profile) I'll be there if you need to talk. I'll sure try, even thoughI'm pretty busy currently. God Bless dude, P.S. Keep your chin up, God looks after those who love him. ------------------ |
en972 Member Posts: 562 From: NOT TELLING! Registered: 08-27-2004 |
Not out of disrespect but this is another reason why I believe courting works better. Courting and prayer ------------------ |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
Tommorrow I'll be registering at Tomball College!! woo hoo!! Gonnan go after being a data Administrator. This seems to be what God wants me to do so I'm gonna go after it all the way. Still waiting to hear from her. In Christ name -Valkyri ------------------ |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
Well I just got registered for the last time today everythings in the clear just got to go get text books for class. I start next week and ill be taking 14 hours of it. Thank the Lord Im in. She came over today just to talk to Nena. Irony upon irony. Her guy will be going into the service any day now. And it's just now hitting, shes realizing that she'll be alone for 6 months. No job, no electricity, just basically very little. And the world is really going to fall in on her cause she hasn't even been served yet. (divorce papers) I just pray she'll be fine and that she survives. My hope is that this will force to cry out to God and Christ. I don't really know if she will survive. I know for a fact that I truly cannot take her back to live with us. It just can't happen. I mean I can't, I just can't. Oh lord help her. So I ask that yall pray for her please. To help her come back to God. -In Christ's name, Valkyri ------------------ |
Jari Member Posts: 1471 From: Helsinki, Finland Registered: 03-11-2005 |
We, pray. Stay strong Brother. God bless you and your son. ------------------ Unless the LORD builds the house, they labor in vain who build it; unless the LORD keeps the city, the watchman stays awake in vain. - Psalms 127:1 |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
Thank you very much brother. Well, the first of college was great. Basically it went like this: Listen, listen, listen, fill out papers, get lost, listen, listen, listen, fill out papers, go get lost, now teachers go get us all lost, listen, listen, listen, go find car, 45 min later get in car, 2 hrs get home. Say to son: I'm so glad to see you. Well, he was asleep. I even ran into some old friends from Magnolia High, and there like: there you are!!!!!!!! Can't say I blame them. I'm the kid that disapeered. Funny how the guy thats the craziest and the wildest is now all of a sudden very composed. (scratches head) The class that I think is going to affect me the most is Sociology. Mr. Royster that teaches it is a Mathamatician, a Sociologist and even a Reverend. It's pretty much gonna be interesting. I know he's going to ask about what has affected our lives and me I'm just going to be uncomfortable. But if God wants to be truthful about it all I will. (gulp) God willing, I should be fine. ------------------ |
MastaLlama Member Posts: 671 From: Houston, TX USA Registered: 08-10-2005 |
hey Valkyri, Glad to hear school's going good. I know I'm coming in late on this thread but I'll definately keep you in my prayers. I know how it is to be with a woman you know you shouldn't be with, we never married, but it was a hard break-up none-the-less. Hey, I live in Spring over by North Harris College and I travel all over the greater Houston area with my work. If you ever want to get together, have lunch or something and pray, just let me know. My email address is in my profile. MastaLlama ------------------ |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
Thx, I might just take you up on that. ------------------ |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
It's been sent, please pray. ------------------ |
Realm Master Member Posts: 1971 From: USA Registered: 05-15-2005 |
wow, valkri, i just read your first post (hehe, i got the tail end of this one) and all i can say is: God will forgive you! (he ovbiously already has...) crud, ill need to fill in. ------------------ Blessed are those who show mercy. Blessed are those who suffer for doing what is right. |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
thx ------------------ |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
Hello, sorry that I have not been able to post in a while. Anyway an update. She shows no remorse, its like she does not even know that she has lost custody (the 60 days are up) I mean it just makes me so mad and sad and wanting to cry, but I don't know. Anyway, pray and thank yall once more. I am going to be starting a new topic on Secular Humanism, I feel that I am being led to do this. Anyway, God bless. In Christ, Valkyri P.S. I am finally about to be able to get involved in a small group at FOTW!!! Yeah!!!! ------------------ |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
oh and hey realm, it seems you did kill my topic! lol God bless! hmmmm, i wonder you might have the power to kill some other really nasty topics i've seen in other forums (not here of course), im just playing lol anyway take care In Christ, Valkyri ------------------ |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
oh hey Shanes 27 lbs now, and and 31.5 inches long now! He's gonna be a linebacker. I'm doomed. ------------------ |
Realm Master Member Posts: 1971 From: USA Registered: 05-15-2005 |
Hehe. Raise the little guy well, and he'll turn out to be a God-fearing linbacker!
TOPICKILLERDUDE!!! ------------------ Blessed are those who suffer for doing what is right. PM ME YOUR DESCRIPTION OF ME! ILL PUT IT HERE! |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
I shall RM, I shall ------------------ |
Jachin Member Posts: 113 From: Independence, OR, USA Registered: 01-03-2003 |
Hi Valkyri, I got married at 19. It has been real hard work. Good Luck, my prayers are with you. [This message has been edited by Jachin (edited November 06, 2005).] |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
What a coincidense, I just got into one at FOTW! In Christ, Valkyri ------------------ |
QuestLeader Member Posts: 629 From: My house, Va, USA Registered: 04-20-2005 |
Heh, i got like, five or six years to go till im a dad... i dont even have a girlfriend though... wouldnt that be awesome if your first girlfriend was the one you married? dang, that would rock... |
Realm Master Member Posts: 1971 From: USA Registered: 05-15-2005 |
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i've got like... ohh... 10-20 years before i get a GIRLFRIEND, not to mention a wife to be happy with. and that would NOT be because of me, if i know i what i mean. ------------------ Blessed are those who suffer for doing what is right. PM ME YOUR DESCRIPTION OF ME! ILL PUT IT HERE! |
QuestLeader Member Posts: 629 From: My house, Va, USA Registered: 04-20-2005 |
lol, strict parents? I'm working on getting a girlfriend... but im just shy, ya know? |
Realm Master Member Posts: 1971 From: USA Registered: 05-15-2005 |
you didn't get what i meant. im thinking "first impressions" or perhaps "looks"? can you guess now? ------------------ Blessed are those who suffer for doing what is right. PM ME YOUR DESCRIPTION OF ME! ILL PUT IT HERE! |
Jachin Member Posts: 113 From: Independence, OR, USA Registered: 01-03-2003 |
Unsolicited advise: Try taking care of a fish, if you can keep it alive for a few months Try caring for a ferret or rat Move on to a dog or some high maintenance animal If you can't keep them alive, or find it hard to lovingly care for any of your new found friends, I would say you are not ready for a relationship with a girl. If you can though, girls really like a guy who is kind and has a cute puppy. [This message has been edited by jachin (edited November 09, 2005).] |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
sad smile, I appreciate the cheering up guys, really I do. sighs, Just another 2-3 weeks before it is all over. I shall cry indeed. When that occurs it going to be the saddest day of my life. I shall continue to trust in the Lord my God for I must depend on him. And no I'm not trying to sound pious, i'm just being honest. Anyway, I thank you all for putting up with me lol. Hopefully i'll be able to make a few more posts before Krylar redoes everything, but if not all I can say is is that yall have helped me more than yall know and may Christ bless yall indeed! I pray though that I'll have the strength to press on through this world. In Christ, Valkyri ------------------ |
Jachin Member Posts: 113 From: Independence, OR, USA Registered: 01-03-2003 |
Hi Valkyri, I made it through four years in college(Computer Science) with College Advice: Classes are often lectures so if you bring a laptop it is possible to get 20-80% of an assignment done before you leave class. Let me know how things are going. |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
AAS Database Administrator, college is almost over( falls over and dies) the date of the court got rescheduled, but I'm finally going to make progress with getting back to my parents tomorrow. Pray for me in that it goes well. Let me know if you need me to pray for yall. ------------------ |
Klumsy Administrator Posts: 1061 From: Port Angeles, WA, USA Registered: 10-25-2001 |
valk, do you have yahoo messenger, or MSN messenger etc. i'd like to talk with you outside of hte forum context. in Christ, Karl ------------------ |
Jachin Member Posts: 113 From: Independence, OR, USA Registered: 01-03-2003 |
quote: My database class was taught by a very hard professor. ------------------ |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
Hello, Within a few days my court day will occur and hopefully all will go well. I still wonder if I am doing the right thing, but in my heart I feel I am. All I care is that Shane gets what is best for him. I pray that she comes to realize what she has lost even though its like she has done a single thing wrong still. I just don't know. I'm sure yall still wonder why I ever came to yall and just bared my soul and everything and I don't blame yall. I just felt led to go to yall. sighs, I hope I have done the right thing in making it all legal and getting max on visiting. I truly hope that with Papa and Nenas help I will be able to take good care of Shane and raise him to be a rightous man after God's own heart. It makes me so sad that it is all so close to Christmas; I feel like she should be here celebrating it I don't know why. Its funny how life works out. I suppose it really is true how the song goes that says that God works in mysterious ways. I just have to trust in him. Though admitidly I still ask why. I still try not to think about it all so i dont cry. Nena has enough on her mind as it is. I hope that through all this fire that God will use me to do whatever it is that he is leading me to go and create or ignite. sighs. Perhaps this is what will bring me to clarity through all the fire to find my purpose in life. As an aside on grades for semester: overall A's and a B for Math (what else) and still waiting on Sociology. Shane is still teething but he has managed to get in two teeth over the past week, and we think he is going to have another one or two within the next week or so. Also he still doing his best to walk. He so desparately wants to walk. He's crawling everywhere though as much as he hates crawling lol. He's at (we think) about 32-33 pounds. As to height wer'e not sure. Wont have another doctors appointment till early January and all. I sure yall wonder what kind of addition I could make in coding, well to that all I can say is that my heart says stories cause lately that is all I seem able to think of. I appreciate yalls prayers and yalls willingness to put up with me. I will keep yall in my prayers. ------------------ |
Jachin Member Posts: 113 From: Independence, OR, USA Registered: 01-03-2003 |
My boy is almost 8 mo old, cralling and has two more new teath. I pray that you can be a large part of Shane's life. Little boys need their daddys. ------------------ |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
Thank you. I hope I can do well in that way. In Christ, Valkyri ------------------ |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
Quote: IT IS FINISHED ------------------ |
buddboy Member Posts: 2220 From: New Albany, Indiana, U.S. Registered: 10-08-2004 |
Yah Valkyri... I'm coming in really late, but man is that the greatest quote or what? The finisher of our faith! I just want you to know (as if you don't already!!) that all of us are here through all this for you. I hope that you get custody of Shane and that it all works out. ------------------ |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
but I did, lol i meant the quote in a good sense. I will do a full report on how court went, tonight when i get the chance. In Christ, Valkyri P.S. Thank you all for your prayers! ------------------ |
buddboy Member Posts: 2220 From: New Albany, Indiana, U.S. Registered: 10-08-2004 |
K great!! That's good! ------------------ |
Valkyri Member Posts: 205 From: Registered: 08-13-2005 |
It went well, sighs but she did not show, so it defaulted, so basically im now running the show when it comes to Shane. Though i did promise her that she would get to see Shane way back when, and I still intend to keep it. For I want Shane to know who is biological mother is, to know her. I never got to know what mine was like, cause i was adopted. so you know how that goes. I know it seems strange, but I know that this is what God wants too. I don't want him to be plagued by doubts and fears like I was. In the end as to how it went in court today, it went well, course I was extremely nervous, lol But then I've never been in court. Thank God all went well! I hope that now that it is all said and done that I will with Papa and Nenas help be able to raise him to walk in God's ways. I hope I can be good Dad. Thank you all kindly. God bless! In Christ, Valkyri ------------------ |
Jachin Member Posts: 113 From: Independence, OR, USA Registered: 01-03-2003 |
Hooray! Talk about an answer to prayer! ------------------ |