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A lil help – woody

WOODY

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Posts: 42
From: Mt. Pleasant, michigan, USA
Registered: 10-22-2002
1st I want to say I'm sorry if it seems like I post in devationals, praise, and prayer, if it doesn't belong there, but I don't know where to post it other then here. I was telling you all about my g/f. Well she has asked for forgivness from God, for the thing she did, and she really wants to live her life for God now! I just need some advice about what to do, well its not a good thing but I can get jealous about my g/f easy sometimes. Like if she hangs wit people I know/trust then its all good. Anyways what happend was she likes to go to dance's at a rollerrink. All they play is fast songs, so there is alot of grinding going on. She doesn't consider that dirty dancing, while I do. I really don't like the idea of my g/f grinding on other guys or guys doing it to her. She really doesn't have a problem with. I have talked to her and she said that if I didn't want her to go then she won't, but I know that wouldn't make her to happy. She has invited me to go with her, but I don't like dancing nor can I. Plus she said that she would still dance with other guys even if I went Also I don't want to tell her that she can't do things and/or hang out wit her friends. I just don't know what to do. I have prayed about it, but am yet to find my answer. I was wondering if any of you could give me some advive about what I should or could try doing.
D-SIPL

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From: Maesteg, Wales
Registered: 07-21-2001
You need to base your relationship on God, he has to be your number 1 priority. If she is not willing to do this, then you should get out of that relationship.

Have you asked God if she is the right one for you? Remember he has a perfect plan for your life, and you need to stay under that covering.

Pray, and ask God for direction.

--D-SIPL

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If at first you don't succeed, destroy all evidence that suggests you tried

WOODY

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Posts: 42
From: Mt. Pleasant, michigan, USA
Registered: 10-22-2002
Well yes we are living our relationship for GOD. I made sure of that when we 1st started dating. Things are going really well. She can loose control sometimes but I make sure things don't get out of hand, and that we don't do anything. Our views are all the small about our relationship, and GOD. I was just wondering what to do about the whole dancing thing and being jelious. I want to thank you for your help

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Justin

D-SIPL

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From: Maesteg, Wales
Registered: 07-21-2001
Well i would let her know how you feel about it. If she loves you, she will respect that. Tell her your not being possesive and that your not comfortable with it.

--D-SIPL

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If at first you don't succeed, destroy all evidence that suggests you tried

WOODY

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Posts: 42
From: Mt. Pleasant, michigan, USA
Registered: 10-22-2002
Well I have talked to her and told her how I feel. She said that if I didn't want her to go then she wouldn't. I didn't want to tell her not to go at all cause I don't want to be like that. She said she wouldn't go to often. I can live with that, and I figure its better than every other weekend. Thankx for the help, and if ya ever want to know how things are going or want someone to talk to just hit me up. THANKX!

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Justin

ArchAngel

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From: SV, CA, USA
Registered: 01-29-2002
and don't worry about being jealous. it's your Godgiven right.

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WOODY

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Posts: 42
From: Mt. Pleasant, michigan, USA
Registered: 10-22-2002
OK things seem to be getting better, but last night I got worried about something. Her cousin was with us and he was talking about going on a trip this summer and drinking. It would be like for a week and a half. 1st of all I don't think I could handle not talking/seeing her for that long. I find it hard to sleep if I don't get to talk to her and tell her good night. But the thing that really got to me was that she sounded like she wanted to drink. When I wrote her about it she wrote back saying "No I don't really want to drink, but sometimes it would be nice." I really like her and don't want to lose her, but I if I knew that she did drink, I don't think that I would of went out with her. When I say things about not doing stuff, most of the time I get, well that doesn't change who I am, or make me a diff/bad person. I'm just so lost as what 2 do

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Justin

bennythebear

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From: kentucky,usa
Registered: 12-13-2003
woody, i hope i can help you in some way. i've had experience in things like this. i really loved a girl once, and still care for her, but more as a brother now. you have to understand that we're human, and sometimes what we want, and who we want is simply not who GOD wants us to be with. you also need to know that the devil will play with your emotions and with your head, and he can really get you messed up, but GOD delivers if you rely on HIM. i really had my head screwed up over this girl, i really thought she was the one. but one night i was ballin' my eyes out to GOD to let me know what to do, and if she wasn't the one then give me a sign that i can't argue with, because i'm weak like that. and he did. what you should do is pray hard, talking with GOD, walk with GOD, HE will bring you through it. you got my prayers man, and i hope this helps some.