WOODY Member Posts: 42 From: Mt. Pleasant, michigan, USA Registered: 10-22-2002 |
Hey well I have got a g/f. There is jsut something that bothers me. I have found out from her that she has giving a guy a b.j. She said she really regreats this and I beleive her. She also said she will change her ways, and I have allready helped her with the shirts she had and her language. Her g-ma also died a couple months ago. Her g-ma was a really good christian and now my g/f wants to follow in her footsteps. Do you have any advice as to what I should do as in dating her, cause of all of this. She has been unclean, so I don't know what to do about that. Also that girl I was telling ya about who has been raped. Well she does live on the other side of the U.S as me, and we have only talked on-line, but when I told her about me having a g/f she got really said and started crying. She then told me how she felt about me, and she really likes me. She is now being hard on herself, putting herself down, and I feel bad because it seems like I hurt her. It was even to a point where she was gonna buy me a plane ticket so I could move out there and live with her. I also don't know what to do about that. Thankx |
AmazingJas Member Posts: 437 From: Sydney, NSW, AUSTRALIA Registered: 04-03-2003 |
I'll jump right in and say, that if she is a Christian, and if she can repent of what she did (to God thru Jesus, not just to you), then she is not unclean. But...you still need to be careful in these situations. The bible says that we should not be yoked together with unbelievers, and I believe that this is meant to be a warning about coupling/marrying to people who don't share the same faith as we do. Just step carefully until you are sure she is on the same road as you are. As to the other 'long distance' relationship, I had one when I was veeeery young (about 17 or so), and when I finally met the girl, I found that she was nothing like what I thought she was. That doesn't mean that will be the case with you, but I wouldn't throw away everything based on internet chat. Maybe having two girls on the string at the same time means you need to rule one out, before making even a temporary committment to the other. |
ArchAngel Member Posts: 3450 From: SV, CA, USA Registered: 01-29-2002 |
hmm, first thing I would say, is pray. always helped me out. also, she has to be a christian. it's fundamental. it'll also save you and her a lot of grief. and, about the "unclean" thing... it can be forgiven. granted it reeks alot. hmmm... you know, I really don't know what to say about the other girl. you should have to choose. and... you got my prayers again.
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