MadProf Member Posts: 181 From: Larnaka, Cyprus Registered: 01-24-2001 |
Hi everyone, I've been away for quite a while. Been months since I last posted here. Much has been happening for me. I have been envolved in blender quite a bit, and also in a new play here in the theatre group (non-christian). I have been struggling a lot with cynicism, and being tired and fed up of theology and a lot of christianity, really. I try to be hopefull and relying on God all the time, but I feel far away from Him, and nothing I do seems to bring me closer. I don't know why, but I feel like I've lost any passion I ever had for Christianity. I still believe in God, I still talk to Him a lot, I still read the bible most days, I still go to church, but it all feels fake and like just going through the motions. When I pray, I feel like I'm acting, and as if God isn't there. But also as if I'm not there. I have become envolved in many long theological debates with various people, and have become tired with it all. Biblical discussions seem pointless: people read their own understanding into everything, and although they are "Open, of course, to the Holy Spirit changing my heart and understanding of this..." He doesn't often do that. At least, not around here. I know I should wait on the Lord, and in His time, if it is His will, then He will reveal Himself to me, and soften my heart. Its so hard to hang on though, when I've never met Him, and have hardly any faith that He even exists. I know all the usual theological responses. I've heard all the normal Good Christian Responses(tm). I've done all the Correct Christian Things To Do When God Seems Far Away(tm). If its not too much trouble, please pray for Revival in Cyprus. I don't have enough faith left to pray properly myself. Sorry for this stupid message. Dan "I'm probably wrong anyway" MadProf |
D-SIPL Moderator Posts: 1345 From: Maesteg, Wales Registered: 07-21-2001 |
Hey mate, I have been waiting for the right time to post this but here goes. For the past year, got caught up in drugs again, i was still posting on here as if nothing was wrong with me. I was also sleeping around, and living a lie. I felt far away from God, i didn't paticuarly care, everything to do with christianity bored me, i felt like my head was constantly buzzing (like a tv channel thats not tuned in properly). This all came to an end last Tuesday... my girlfriend left me because i had cheated on her, i couldn't blame her for that. My life was going nowhere and i decided to end it all. I was gonna do it, no messin this time, i went for a drive to clear my head, an all i could think about was ways of ending it quickly. I got home, and my mum called me, i was in tears and she and my Dad rushed home, my Mum took me to see my Pastors, i explained to them that i couldn't go on like this. He explained that i needed God back in my life, more so then before, and that i needed a reality, not something fake that didn't feel real. So that was it, nothing to lose, i chose God, i repented, was set free, and now im more on fire for God then i have ever been, drugs have nothing on what i feel now, i feel close to God and i feel great. You jus need a reality, God isn't real to you right now, you need a touch from him, one that would change your life forever, jus pray an ask him to become real to you. Speak to your pastors, but don;t go down the route i did... God Bless Bro. --D-SIPL ------------------
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nfektious Member Posts: 408 From: Registered: 10-25-2002 |
D-SIPL: God bless you with your renewed faith. I am happy for you. There was a moment in particular that I was alarmed by something you posted here, and the burden came to me to pray - not just for you, but for others too. I'm not taking credit for what God did or anything, just expressing some brotherly love. I encourage you to find someone locally who can challenge your commitment to Christ and keep it alive and growing, yearning for more of him in control of your life. Madprof: A painting can be perfect and the frame hung straight, but the glass in the frame can have a smudge, causing the whole picture to be seen as less than what the artist intended. You might change the way you look at the picture in an attempt to solve the problem, and feel better about it in the end. But the problem still exists. Sometimes the solution to the problem is a matter of changing your perception - not just your perspective. God bless you. My prayers are with you. |
Klumsy Administrator Posts: 1061 From: Port Angeles, WA, USA Registered: 10-25-2001 |
woah, what a day on CCN, I love to hear the testimonies of GOd in peoples life - RE: matt, and d-sipl. i want to encourage you each 3 in your walks, in your various challenges and in your purpose on earth, as disciples of Christ. In our walks, there is a part of our spiritual pilgrimage in which we can only go alone, ourselves with GOd, its a lonely place in a sense, that we can't take friends along, or even our spouse, but then its the least lonely place in another sense in that God is there with us, and its a place of pilgrimage of us towards GOd - whether we feel his presense or not. I'm glad that there are other places where we pilgrimage and work with other christians, being iron that sharpens iron, encouraging each other, and working together for a common goal in God, in sharing the gospel, in being light in this world. I'm enjoying the fellowship of many other christians lately, and being a part of a great vision, also in seeing visions in GOd that have been incubating in my heart and seeing little plants spout out, in seeing visions i've incubated for others and then have them own the vision and take hold of it and walk with it themselves - also in my relationship with my wife, and our spiritual walk together as a couple and a family, and also in that lonely but not place of personal pilgrimage with God. I'm glad to be a part of witnessing God working in your lives. To matt: I pray that God continues to refine and grow you where you are at, and that God places others around you, who will be of like mind and vision, and as He has been molding you on the inside that it is for a purpose and that purpose will be played out in this age - in your own life, family, but as a witness to many of God's grace , mercy and love. I pray that you'll also be a challenge those many of us (and i fight to keep laodicea out of my heart - its in all of us these days to a point) in christiandom that need a change in direction, in heart, to get rid of religion but embrace pure religion. I pray that you can show great challenge to many, being bold and strong, but also humble and gentle.I pray that you come to accept the wonder of the church, how Christ uses impure vessels, with great defencies to acheive his will and purposes in this age. God is preparing you and growing you for a purpose , which includes person pilgrimage with Christ through you life, but purpose on the earth in this age that you were born and destined for. AMEN D-sipl: dan: let me pray ------------------ |
D-SIPL Moderator Posts: 1345 From: Maesteg, Wales Registered: 07-21-2001 |
Thanks for your prayers guys. I'm back at my church now, drumming in the services as well, which has been something i have missed tremendously. I am meeting up with my youth pastor tonight, for a chinese (the hackers food of choice, might i add ), and a chat. But once again thanks for the encouragement and kind words. --D-SIPL ------------------
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AmazingJas Member Posts: 437 From: Sydney, NSW, AUSTRALIA Registered: 04-03-2003 |
D-sipl, I don't really have any words at the moment, except to say, I think you've been blessed by your tribulation, and I will pray, that you surge forward, keep your life focused on God, and continue on the path you have returned to. God bless ya man! MadProf, I don't think I've 'met' you before, but I think that I can say that you have also been blessed just by hearing D-sipl's encouraging testimony, I think God is manouvering things into place for you, so get ready for the big bang! Stick with it pal, ride the storm out, look forward to the cavalry charge, cause it's on the way. I'm offering prayers up for you now. |
AmazingJas Member Posts: 437 From: Sydney, NSW, AUSTRALIA Registered: 04-03-2003 |
Just to let you guys know that I've been praying for you guys this week, hope it helps. |
D-SIPL Moderator Posts: 1345 From: Maesteg, Wales Registered: 07-21-2001 |
Thanks AmazingJas, i'm still going on really strongly, and the passion for God jus burns in my hurt. I have been attacked in my mind, usually when i'm on my own, or at night. It was so bad last night i called a close friend, and that helped. I really appreciate your prayers, thank you. --D-SIPL ------------------
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AmazingJas Member Posts: 437 From: Sydney, NSW, AUSTRALIA Registered: 04-03-2003 |
No worries, I'm glad to hear things are going OK. I know what you mean about late night temptations. I had a real problem with pornography late at night. As you said, the only way to break these addictions is to turn completely towards God, and make him number one, and that burning he gives you is fantastic!. I'm so glad I got back on track, and life has become good again. Cheers |
c h i e f y Member Posts: 415 From: Surrey, United Kingdom Registered: 03-07-2002 |
the worst of the problems presented on this thread IMO is the terrible danger that D-SIPL went through, possession of drugs I don't NEED to lecture anybody on here what that can lead to surely, but the evil paths that drugs converge onto are relentlessly underestimated and side stepped REALLY his temptation was facilitated easy peasy, by devils in society - who have NO PLACE in society. Drug Dealers are NUMEROUS unfortunately and in many cases RICH yes RICH I repeat how are totally evil and ruthless ppl RICH from putting temptation out for anybody who feels the slightest weakness? they do not deserve the luxury that we all enjoy, being able to walk the streets IS the UK building prisons? No I see California where the 3 strikes and you're out law ACTUALLY DOES deal with this ultimate menace to society properly California has locked up more drug dealers FOR LIFE, than anywhere else in the civilised west, that policy SHOULD BE the norm D-SIPL here's to CCN!! a top community, moving forward together ------------------ |
MadProf Member Posts: 181 From: Larnaka, Cyprus Registered: 01-24-2001 |
guys, thanks for praying and sharing. dan ------------------ |
bennythebear Member Posts: 1225 From: kentucky,usa Registered: 12-13-2003 |
i like that, "7 days without praying makes one weak". i know how it is to feel out of touch with reality, i've been feeling that way for a long time now. i also know the feeling of everything seeming fake, i believe it's simply because of sin. on my part, it's all around women, and that just images. but i know that GOD's merciful, and i know as long as i keep trying my best HE'll move in my life, even if it's a massive chastening followed by a massive blessing HE'll do it. you ever notice GOD follows up disciplin with love? i once heard whipping your kid to correct with is good, but whipping them withOUT(not with!) loving them afterwords is just abuse. i'll be praying for ya. [This message has been edited by bennythebear (edited January 28, 2004).] |
AmazingJas Member Posts: 437 From: Sydney, NSW, AUSTRALIA Registered: 04-03-2003 |
Benny, one thing that I am slowly learning (at much pains) is that you can't be worried about how fake other Christians seem. If it affects your faith, then the devil is gaining victory and we don't want that. Ever since I've been driving (about 16 years now) whenever someone cuts me off or speeds past, I've always wished that a copper would come out from behind a bush, and book the sucker! But it never happens. I think I've been too focused on punishment, and not blessings and it screwed me up a little bit. I'm now dealing with this, and I'm happier for it. The relationship you develop with God is personal, and we all grow in that relationship at different rates. You'll see some 50 year old Christians who still haven't grasped that, and think they need to justify their faith by appearing more faithful than they actually are...don't sweat it. And of course they may not be faking! |
D-SIPL Moderator Posts: 1345 From: Maesteg, Wales Registered: 07-21-2001 |
quote: I agree, drug dealers should be locked up for life, they get rich off of other peoples misery. I was easy prey for them, and they bled me for everything i had, and eased me on to harder drugs (which obviously cost more). Thanks for your kind words guys, and thought i would let you know that everything is going great. --D-SIPL ------------------
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