WOODY Member Posts: 42 From: Mt. Pleasant, michigan, USA Registered: 10-22-2002 |
I really need some advice. Ok well I really like and care for my girl friend, but she's a pain right now. Like tonight we had a thing wit our youth group, and i was laying on the floor and every one started falling on me. Well my g/f got pissed cause i just laid there and let every one fall on me including 2 girls. She said i was flirting and not paying attention to her. We promised that we would have time for our friends, but she don't seem to care, about that. Plus I found out she's almost ready to dump me. |
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Christian Member Posts: 400 From: Australia Registered: 09-15-2002 |
If she's about to dump you, then there's not much else you can do. It sounds like she has issues. She'll still have them when you're both 60, so it may well be better if she's ready to walk away, to let her. And remember if you're Christians, you need to be friends after. |
ArchAngel Member Posts: 3450 From: SV, CA, USA Registered: 01-29-2002 |
I'd probably say pray, and be sensitive to her (not in a girly way, but a manly way...). If I saw guys all over my girlfriend, I'd be hecka pissed off. It's little more that hanging with your friends if you got girls lying on you. It's easier to resolve any conflict if you understand both sides. You got my prayers, homie. ------------------ |
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realkodiac Member Posts: 10 From: Registered: 04-04-2003 |
first thing ya should do is pray, GOD can handle things a lot better than us. i agree with the brother, if the girl i loved had some guys falling on her, even if it was "all in good fun", i'd have to do some serious praying, cause...well i'm a jealous kinda man, and i'd be getting tempted to do some bad stuff. if she does run don't chase after her. a woman is like an old coon dog, if your outside you can make it stay on your porch, but the moment you go outside if it don't wanna stay it's gone. not calling women dogs, it'd work the same towards a guy. well anyway hope something i said made sense. later and GOD bless. |
c h i e f y Member Posts: 415 From: Surrey, United Kingdom Registered: 03-07-2002 |
a woman is like an old coon dog ??  hehe well that analogy is a new one on me  woody you said you really like and care for your girlfriend, that must be hard when you find that she's about to dump you, so ..... what happened?  ------------------ |
D-SIPL Moderator Posts: 1345 From: Maesteg, Wales Registered: 07-21-2001 |
Ok, i've been in your position before. Your girlfriend seems very possesive of you, and you don't need that. Ask her how a bunch of people jumping on you can mean anything?? It doesn't make sense. Talk i through with her, and pray an ask God whether the relationship is meant to be. It's well worth waiting for the right women to come along, it will save a lot of heartache in the future trust me! --D-SIPL ------------------ |
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ArchAngel Member Posts: 3450 From: SV, CA, USA Registered: 01-29-2002 |
quote: I could argue against that point. but, then again, this topic is kinda old now... who knows, it might still have significance... ------------------ |
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c h i e f y Member Posts: 415 From: Surrey, United Kingdom Registered: 03-07-2002 |
D-SIPL "the woman is kinda possessive of you and you don't need that" ? woody what happened? Did you join HOT OR NOT or what? I agree with D-SIPL's post ------------------ |
hey are you SURE? sounds real fun to me!